Many people seems be against touching pussy. But why? It is anal only, same as nipples stimulation and its makes sense as pussies are meant to be only outer. Many girls can’t cum without rectal or clitoral stimulation. So clitoral stimulation would make easier to be anal-only for many girls.
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I don’t think anyone’s against it. It simply seems that stopping clitoral and vaginal stimulation makes the girl/woman instantly enjoy anal sex even more.
For years my girlfriend did clit stimulation to orgasm while I assfucked her. A few weeks back I asked her to try avoiding stimulating her clit. Since she’s doing it, there is an amazing increase of pleasure when her asshole is penetrated. Be it with fingers, cock or dildo, she is clearly enjoying anal stimulation more since she stopped touching her clit.
The goal, of course, is to achieve a pure anal orgasm. Still working on that.
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no touching (not only clit) during anal sex lets me enjoy more of anal, it’s forcing me to focus on only the feeling in anal. having no orgasm from anal makes me want more of it. so to us, yes, we’d against clit and anything else in that case. however, we use a lot of clit and nipples for other plays.
That make sense. Depends also on how sensitive hole you have back there.
After exploring a world of clit and vaginal denial, of vaginal chastity piercings, vaginal virginity, and the idea of modding the vagina, but never stimulating it, I’ve found that this makes me so turned on.
I am a male.
I like the play of forgetting that the pussy can even be used to other than giving birth and menstruation.
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I think clit stimulation is a necessary path in the development of female anal pleasure. I think initially clitoral massage during anal can be used to achieve orgasm during anal penetration. This opens pleasure pathways in the brain through association so that anal becomes associated with orgasm. Eventually, after enough orgasms during anal, some women can achieve orgasm without it.
I think if you are horny enough you can cum with very minimal activity. I recall the first time my wife spread her arse wide open if font of me and said “I know what you want!” I literally couldn’t contain my excitement. I only just managed to get the head of my cock up her arse and exploded.
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I think I agree with this, my wife used clit play to cum originally. Over time she stopped and now there is no clit touching at all and her orgasms have become stronger than ever.
I used to enjoy clitoral orgasms before I started my anal journey. Initially my boyfriend would pleasure me before entering my ass then I would stimulate my clitoras while enjoying anal. A couple of people on the old forum suggested avoiding clitoral stimulation so I could focus on the sensations I was experiencing from anal sex. It really worked and I experienced my first anal orgasm which was so much better than vaginal or clitoral. It was more powerful and lasted longer. Now a days I’m lucky to experience anal orgasms quite regularly, particularly from double anal. I have had a sneaky clitoral now and again but never when having anal sex.
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I think it’s important. I don’t orgasm from penetration. Never have. I have always needed clitoral stimulation.
For me it helped. Training my body to accept being penetrated anally and rewiring my body to enjoy it versus vaginal with clitoral stimulation. Plus I still want to be eaten out most times.
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I’ve been a bit of an anal purist over the past 18 months. The thoughts of being eaten out really appeals to me and my boyfriend is a bit of a whizz with that. Sunday night might be a treat for me!
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I’m currently of the opinion that the clit is designed solely for pleasure, and however you wish to make use of it is your business. As it internally extends around the vagina and back towards if not to the anus, you’re probably stimulating it one way or another while having sex, either from the front or the back. I think the reason so many here can and do stop playing with the front of the clit (that we can see) is because the brain has picked up taking cues from stimulation from the back end of the clit and the body responds accordingly.
I agree with Backdoorlover, no one should be against someone else doing something that brings them pleasure. If clitoral stimulation was the only way my wife could orgasm during anal, by all means I wouldn’t stop her. However, when she stopped clitoral stimulation, it took anal sex to a whole new lever for both of us. Now, she doesn’t want anything anyplace near her vagina or clit and actually wishes she had tried anal without clit stimulation much earlier. That said, she may the the exception to the rule. Don’t deny your significant other pleasure for some anal only fantasy. I am thankful my wife was willing to try anal without clit stimulation. Although it took several tries, when she did begin achieving purely anal only orgasms, they were much more intense and satisfying. Now, she’d never go back. She says that she thinks the clitoral stimulation actually distracted her from truly enjoying anal sex to the maximum.
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I need to say that meanwhile clit stimulation is back on the table. Simply because it took her so much effort to reach 3 pure anal orgasms and she didn’t consider them any stronger. She says the clit stimulation gives her the same intensity, but with far less effort to get there.
So this try out of ours, concluded that clit denial, to me at least, is more like a social kick. I loved that whole idea of her doing ass to mouth on me, bringing my orgasm to an amazing level, while not being occupied with her own orgasm. So now we do both. I use her for my pleasure, not thinking about her orgasm, or I lick her clit before or after the fuck. Or she rubbs herself to orgasm while I assfuck her. No rules, just real ass to mouth fun.
She has totally no problems with just being assfucked to pleasure me. And to me it feels liberating to assfuck her without thinking about her orgasm. It’s that true free anal use vibe that can do so much good in a man’s mind.
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I know that, should my wife ever get to a point where clit stimulation is required or desired to get her off, I wouldn’t have a problem with it or feel it made us any less “anal only.” Sometimes, there is a season to these things. Would I be saddened if she were to ever say she wanted to just have vaginal sex, absolutely. But I would not deny her that, if that’s what brought her pleasure. Thankfully, she’s even more committed to the anal only lifestyle than I am. After all, she’s the one who blew my mind when she suggested we only have anal sex.
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