Hey, let’s start a topic about the way you personally discovered anal pleasure, giving or recieving.
For me it was due to an irritated asshole when I was (I think) about 13. I had to put ointment on it before I went to sleep and I noticed how good it felt to rub my asshole. I made me yearn for more so I started putting the tip of my finger, slippery from the ointment, in my asshole and it felt amazing.
I did this for some time after that. I’m not sure how long, but long after the problem was gone I was still putting ointment on before I went to sleep.
And then, some day, I stopped and never did it again. I was still a kid and had no idea what made it feel this good and I guess at some point it felt gay or something.
Fact is, my girlfriend tried fingering my asshole while sucking my cock and these days I don’t like it anymore. I want to use HER asshole, not having mine used. I am cock oriented now.
So, how about your earliest experience with anal pleasure ?
I tried inserting things pens or something similar into it at maybe 14 couldn’t remember clearly. I didn’t feel any pleasure at the time, but did like the idea to do it.
later after I met my husband, he started to play with my anal, and after maybe 3 or 5 times I begin to enjoy it.
Interesting, my experience was similar. I never experimented with pens, but with fingers in the bath tub as well.
Back then (I was really young as well), it was just curiosity.
Later, I found anal pornography and was really turned on by the idea of having anal sex with women.
It took me a while to realise I could play with my own ass as well (about five years of getting over stigma).
My first experience of penetrative sey followed not too long afterward, and since she wanted me to decide, I fucked her ass.
Like when I was less than 10 years. While showering, I would insert my finger in my anus (not too deep) just out of curiosity. I don’t remember why I stopped, but it was long before I even knew whan masturbation was.
Later (and quite recently), I became obsessed with anal sexuality, intercourse and porn, and that’s when I discovered this page. It was because of this page that I decided tu shubb some fingers in me for experimentation (not for pleasure).
I would buy a dildo if to explore my self deeper if I had a place to hide it from anyone.
For one thing, many won’t have a flared base and might get lost.
Secondly, cleanliness. How clean are they when you start, how clean when you stop?
Think of the deep ridges on some hairbrush handles … yikes!
There are thousands of hairbrushes. Surely it’s possible to find one with the perfect handle. And cleaning is mandatory. Vibrator, dildo, plug. Everything needs cleaning.
You might also consider using a cucumber of a diameter you’re comfortable with. Obviously wash it first and you could even slip a condom over it for absolute safety. The nice thing about the cucumber is that you can eat the evidence if necessary!
No thank you, I’d rather use the appropriate tool for the right job. Tooth brushes are made to brush your teeth, cucumbers are harvested to be eaten, and dildos are made for sexual pleasure.
Yeah, but you said you can’t have a dildo while living with your parents. Just thought I’d give you an option with something others have used in a pinch.
My first anal experience was when I was in 8th grade…14 yrs old? I had a female friend who was 13 and already sexually active and made it clear she wanted to get with me. We were swimming at her house one day in the summer and her mom and older sister were at work. When we got out of the pool, one thing led to another and I went down on her right there on the pool deck. She turned on her side and asked me to lick her ass. I had already seen some porn that had asslicking in it and was aroused by this, so I was kinda excited to try it. Plus, we had been in the pool for a while so I knew it had to be somewhat clean lol. I proceeded to make out with her asshole and pussy for a few minutes and that led into us fucking. That was my 2nd girl to have sex with but first anal experience. There were more to follow, I always managed to find the naughty girls
Damn, was she already into anal by 13? That’s almost the age at which I started masturbating and watching porn.
By that time, my social anxiety was kicking hard. One day, a guy recommended me to watch porn and masturbate out of spite of seeing me behave like the nerd I am. And so that same night I started for a simple resson: to fit into societyx to feel “normal”.
Very nice!
I was a late bloomer when it came to partnered sex. Back in school, I was considered … I don’t even know, I guess “clueless” by my peers. Like I wouldn’t know what to do with a woman if she undressed in front of me, knelt down and begged for it. One guy even lent me a regular movie that had a scene in a porn theater in it (I think it was American Werewolf in Paris or something like that) in an attempt to “help me”.
Little did they know about my browser history
Try working on your overthinking. I feel it’s holding you down a lot. I think you criple yourself with your own thoughts.
Do you even have some way to really relax ? A hobby of some sort ? A guy your age shouldn’t be this occupied with these abstract thoughts all the time.
