A question which answers of it I keep finding great to read.
What is your personal reason to like anal sex so much ?
For me it started with finding a book in my mum’s nightstand, titled “the sexualy active woman” written in 1974. This was a book written towards females. How to make sex work better for them, how to increase the female pleasure when having sex. So very progressive for the time.
This book, that I read front to back - few chapters every night, had a whole chapter about anal sex. Why to try it, what the advantages were, and even a story abaout a clinical test with couples who engaged in anal sex for the sake of science. They all concluded it took some effort to do it right, but once it was done right they were eager to try it again. And each time it got better.
This part fascinated me so much at my 15th. I knew right then I wanted this. I wanted a girl who wanted to have her asshole fucked.
It took me till the age of 50 to get together with my current girlfriend, and although she technically is the third woman I have anal with, she was the first who wanted it because she loves it. From the first time I assfucked her, everything went supersmooth and she enjoyed it more than vaginal sex.
To me the whole appeal is that while a pussy feels like my cock is squeezed between two chickenbreast filets, her asshole feel snug and tight around my whole shaft. On top of that her asshole feels silky smooth, making long assfucks a true joy. With her every fuck ended in her asshole since the first assfuck we did. And months later I found this forum, told her there is such a thing as “anal only” and she wanted to try it. This was 2,5 years ago.
For me I’ve more plusses in the anal column than I do the vaginal column.
I find anal immensely more pleasurable. I feel much more emotionally connected to my husband. I don’t want any more children, I’ve had two and that’s enough for me. It’s allowed my to explore my sexuality and experience things I’d never have done before.
Vaginal sex doesn’t interest me any more at all, almost to the point of disgust.
It has a deep meaning for me, as the pinacle of all human sexual activities.
It represents the culmination of humans to find the maximum pleasure with their own bodies. The image of semen dripping from the woman’s anus is a symbol of the human ultimate dominance over their reproductive instict.
Also, I find it at least, aesthetically pleasent. I like the minimal look of it: the penis entering a simple, small hole that always had the perfect shape for it, expanding in an out as it thrusts into and out of it. Unlike the vagina, full of all sorts of weird shapes that does not accomodate the penis perfectly, even tho it is supposed to have evolved for that. Like, the only purpose of it is reproduction, failing in giving the all pleasure possible while the anus can.
I wish I knew more words and enough English to describe what makes it beautiful.
(I feel like a scientist that just tinkers talking to engineers that apply all the knowledge)
This is an interesting topic, and I find small elements in others posts that I can relate to.
As a young person I had no concept of anal sex, and when I learned about it as a young adolescent it was what “gays” did (I grew up in a time that was rife with homophobia- which I was worked hard to undo in my own thinking). At some point I read a porn mag that had an article in which a guy expressed his love of anal six with women. This was fascinating to me as I’d never considered this to be part of a heterosexual repertoire of sex.
It wasn’t till I was abt 18 or so and watched a porn movie my gf had borrowed that I saw actual anal sex between a man and a woman and both seemed to enjoy it. It was like a light bulb went off in my head.
I think in my case it’s like a kink, that it’s hard wired into me, but I don’t know for sure.
I had years of vaginal sex, and occasional anal. Then increasing anal until going anal only.
Honestly I don’t recall what vaginal sex feels like. It was ok, but nowhere near as good as anal sex.
Physically it is far superior. The snug tightness over my entire cock as I thrust in and out can’t be beat. Warm, wet, tight in a way the vagina can’t match. The initial tight entry as my wife’s anus slowly swallows my knob is incredible and both of us never tire of that feeling.
Mentally and emotionally it’s also very different. In our case it feels like anal requires more trust and intimacy. Our relationship got even stronger after going AO. It requires trust that I’m not going to hurt her, and that in fact I want her to enjoy it as well. We have all the children we want so it allows us to have as much sex as we want with no fears of pregnancy, nor any surgeries or artificial barriers like condoms. I make sure she orgasms first then she wants to he fucked hard and fast and she begs for my cum in her ass. She tells me that sex that did not end with my cum in her ass would be unsatisfactory for her. That it’s the reward and how she feels she shows love for the orgasm I give her first.
I didn’t know this at first, but she has a submissive streak and there are times when she wants me to make all the sexual decisions and “take her” however I want. This was a challenge for me to accommodate as I dislike men abusing women in society, but this is actually consensual and I know what she like done and respect her parameters. So this allows me to provide her pleasure the way she wants to be pleasured.
We also like that we have a sexy “taboo” sex life that subverts societal norms.
It just ticks all our boxes and continues to get better and better.
My wife’s last 2 orgasms have been really long and extended - so it feels like we continue to learn new things that improve our sex life.
It started with anal play for me and wanting to add to my sexual repertoire and try to figure out what I like and want sexually. As I found i enjoyed it, it became a possible option to avoid unwanted pregnancies without surgery, synthetic hormones, or barriers so I worked towards it for that reason. As I went along, I enjoyed ass play and plugging more and more and when I finally was able to take him, it just felt so good! So, so good with zero worries, stress, or anxiety afterwards about whether or not I might be pregnant. It was legit the first time in my entire life I had ever had sex that felt really good, had zero worries, zero guilt, and zero residual negative feelings to navigate thanks to past sexual abuse. And we’re still figuring out how to do it and it’s still better than vaginal sex because it’s just pleasure and nothing negative attached. I know it’s still largely considered taboo (and I know people who would preach sermons at me trying to guilt me out of it) but I am so convinced it’s okay I don’t even sorta view it that way.
So it’s appealing because it feels so damn good and it’s the first set of sexual experiences I’ve had without negatives attached to it. I figure as long as we’re careful, I won’t have anything to worry about!
Oh well it started pretty early for me. By the age of 17, when I jerked off I could only reach climax if I phantasized I was fucking a woman in the ass. When it got to my actual relationships, I was often really shy, thinking I was a kind of an alien and no one else in the entire world felt like me. This led to a lot of unsatisfying and unfulfilling relationships. In my entire life, it was only once that I could cum with vaginal sex, and it was the most unusual thing in my entire life. For me, when I think about sex, there simply can’t be no other thing than anal. It’s just so natural that it’s not even thought about anymore. Sex for me means a penis and an anus, period.
Wow do I have enough screen ink? I love the feeling, the sensations when there is a cock (or 2) in my ass! My boyfriend also loves the feeling when he is in my ass. It has taught me more about my body and the pleasure I can experience. I also like that although it is becoming more popular it is still not the norm. I guess I like being part of a fairly exclusive club. I also enjoy pushing mine and other people’s boundaries plus I love learning from others, trying something new and being so grateful for the advice.
Mostly it’s the taboo factor butt there are a couple of other factors, like maybe a dominance thing, like master and slave - I fantasize about us keeping an anal slave to keep us both happy with a multitude or perverse things we’d do to her. The other factor - the complete trust and therefore vulnerability that the receiver demonstrates. I also think that as a woman develops her anal skills, it’s an opportunity to completely transcend all those societal norms around guilt and shame and become completely shameless and confidently take charge of her own pleasure.
It is extremely intense and pleasurable. My orgasms are most intense when there’s some anal penetration involved or only anal with no clit or pussy stimulation. I’d always enjoyed rubbing my clitoris while I had a couple of fingers up my ass, so looking back, I’m surprised I only started to seriously explore anal pleasure a couple of years back.
I like the taboo aspect of it too, as someone mentioned earlier. I get a rush from the idea that I’m stretching my ass to the point where it can take bigger toys / objects than my pussy. Seeing my asshole after it has been gaped is a huge turn on. Yes, I’d say a huge part of the appeal is having a loose, sloppy, greedy asshole that needs regular pounding. It makes me feel like a dirty little whore and I love it.
You describe quite a few things that I enjoy from being anal only. Like you, the orgasms from anal are more intense and the sensation of getting my ass fucked make anal much more enjoyable. I used to see it as taboo, not anymore. Thankfully its a lot more mainstream and is my favourite sexual act alongside oral. I love the feeling of being stretched when I have 2 or even 3 cocks in my ass. There is nothing like it. Ass to cum in mouth can still be seen as one of the best parts of anal sex.
I’m not a huge fan if triple. I do it just for a bit of fun and to challenge the men! Double is my favourite without a shadow of a doubt. I became curious about double so I used a dildo and my boyfriend’s cock and that made me want the real thing.
My buddy Tiff is the Triple Anal Queen. She takes three with a smile on her face and it doesn’t phase her at all. She joked on Friday that she wanted 4 in her ass but the new members to our group were a little put out by that suggestion. He was giving me double anal a few minutes later so he’s settling in!!
