I’m intrigued about the amount of anal sex you have.
Frequency
- Never
- Only a couple of times
- Sporadically / On special moments
- Monthly
- Weekly
- Daily
- Some times a day
Also, I’d like to know what kind of changes have you and your parter experienced.
One change might be the increased production of the mucous that covers the anal and rectal canal, which is an effect caused by the depletion of it during repeated penetrations. As the receiver gains more experience, the production of mucous increases and, since it is a bit slippery and a bit thick, the need of lube starts becoming irrelevant to the point it’s not needed.
Our number isn’t available. The first one and half year we started having anal sex, we did it daily. Nowadays it’s every other day and sometimes two in a row. So more like 4-5 times a week.
We would love to go back to daily assfucks, but our worklife is quite demanding. Leading to us being beat at night, lacking any energy to fuck.
We have been anal only for years. The biggest change for us is how easily my wife can relax her anus to let me in. The early years involved lots of lube, time and patience. Nowadays a drop of precum and she opens right up to accommodate me.
The other change I guess would be that she used to need to digitally stimulate her clit to orgasm, but now has “hands off” orgasms best in the spooning position - so that’s her favourite.
About those changes.
We started very soon using coconut oil. She liked it’s taste, which was good for ass to mouth.
Some day she told me that she could take a cock dry if she’s really horny. So some day I just tried it and indeed, with a little extra effort I could shove it in. But after 5 minsI needed to apply some lube to be able to fuck her longer.
This kind of evolved till where we are now. Hardly ever using lube anymore. After 10 mins in her asshole, she gets all buttery inside and we can fuck for 40 mins without needing any sort of lube.
I don’t know what coconut oil tastes like (too fancy to use here), but I assume it’s a pleasant taste.
May sound weird, but could you ask your parter what does that mucous tastes/smells like during ATM? Just for the sake of science and curiosity.
We are a couple in our mid to late 60’s who discovered anal sex 5+ years ago. We both still work but enjoy anal sex 1 or 2 times each week, and more frequently on “fuckations”. It has changed our sex life in the most positive way. Both of our orgasms are incredibly more intense than vaginal penetration or oral sex.
Anal is different than other forms of sex in the sense patience and skill are much bigger factors. One significant change is the skill we’ve developed over the years. Angles of penetration make a big difference as well as techniques I use during anal play with fingers and toys. Curling two fingers in her ass and rubbing her G-spot through her rectum is a big turn on for her.
My wife has learned to accommodate my cock and toys more easily than when we started. She is able to control her sphincter muscles and I can feel it as she tightens her sphincter around my cock.
Probably the biggest change for us is the ability to enjoy anal with no lube. With patience, I can slowly penetrate her ass with no lube or saliva. She enjoys anal much more without lube. We call anal penetration with no lube or saliva our “anal dance”. If we want to get at it more quickly, a little saliva on her ass around her hole helps me slide in quickly.
To answer your other question, the “ass jelly” she produces is a thick, milky white looking substance. It’s an excellent lube once I’ve fully penetrated her ass. Never a need to relube or use additional saliva. I have tasted and injested her ass jelly many times. We enjoy 69 as I penetrate her ass with plugs or dildos. Every now and then, a “glob” of ass jelly slips out of her ass and into my mouth. To me it’s tasteless. She says the same thing during our occasional ass to mouth action.
The last thing I’ll say is that beginners should ALWAYS use plenty of lube. Also go very slowly until both partners develop the confidence and skill necessary to try different things. The reward for taking it slow at first and learning your partner is incredible. For us, it resulted in our decision to only engage in anal sex for the rest of our lives.
Hope this answered your question.
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