How We Started our Anal Only Journey

I had been interested in anal sex for a long time, but my wife and I never really talked about it. I slipped once (really) and my wife screamed in pain. It seemed obvious she wasn’t interested in anal sex.

We had been married about a year when I found a video in a parking lot. The video didn’t have a label on it. I decided to take it home and see what was on it. I mentioned to my wife I had found the video, as I put it in the VCR (yes, this was a number of years ago). On popped a porn video with a lady getting gang-banged by about eight guys. I apologized to my wife and quickly shut the video off. My wife, who is generally quiet reserved said, “Don’t throw it away.” This video wasn’t like any of the soft-core stuff we ever watched (the free videos you get when you order from Adam & Eve).

Later that evening, we were getting into bed and my wife asked me to put the video in. She got into some lingerie while I turned on the TV and put the tape in the VCR. I think the movie was called “Between the Cheeks”. The woman in the video was getting gang-banged and taking it in every hole. I don’t know how much of the video we watched before we fucked our brains out, the way you do when you’re doing something naughty.

A few days later, my wife suggested I put the video in again. I did, and we watched a scene in which a woman was being fucked anally by something like four guys. My wife watched intently and became very horny. We started to have sex in the doggy-style position. As I was slowly working it in and out of her, I pulled my cock out of her pussy and rubbed it over her asshole. She moaned slightly and actually angled her butt back. I continued to alternate between fucking her pussy and rubbing my cock against her asshole. My wife rolled me over, got on top, and fucked my brains out. We both had incredible orgasms.

The next night my wife wanted me to put the video in again. I did and we watched another hot scene where a woman was getting fucked up the ass. Once again, my wife was wet as hell and we began to fuck. She wanted to do doggy-style again, which was somewhat unusual for her. Once again I began removing my cock from her pussy and sliding it across her asshole. My wife began moaning and lowered her ass. I placed my cock against her asshole, and we both just sat there for a second. Then she began to push backward. It seemed like it took forever just to get my head in her ass. It went in with a pop. My wife came like she had never cum before, which caused me to do the same, right up her ass! We both collapsed, and lay there together, shaking. I couldn’t believe I had just cum in my wife’s hot ass.

For the next two weeks or so, we had anal sex every day. Each day she was able to work my cock deeper into her ass. It took about a two weeks until I was able to fully bury my cock in her ass, my balls against her cunt. We both had another mind shattering orgasm. We fell to our sides, my cock still in her ass. We lay like that for about ten minutes. Even though I had just blown my load in my wife’s butt, my cock remained rock hard. My wife began working her asshole, pushing out, then pulling in. It was like she was sucking my cock with her ass. After a couple minutes of this, I told her I was about to cum. We both came again. I couldn’t believe I had cum in my wife’s ass twice in less than 30 minutes. We continued to lay like that, my cock still rock hard. It was like I was 17 again. After about ten minutes, my wife said she wanted to try the missionary position and see if I could fuck her ass as hard as she likes me to fuck her pussy. I took my cock out of her ass for the first time in nearly 45 minutes. She lay on her back, putting her legs over my shoulders and I slowly inserted my cock back into her ass. She now easily took my cock, her asshole having been stretched. My wife was hornier than I had ever seen her before. She asked… No demanded I fuck her ass hard. I was still rock hard and slammed my cock into her ass for a good ten minutes. She must have come five times (before this she rarely had multiple orgasms). Then she had a huge orgasm, and I let go too. My wife passed out. I couldn’t believe I had cum up my wife’s ass for the third time in about an hour, and gave my wife an orgasm that made her pass out.

We were hooked. My wife said she had never had orgasms like she did when we had anal sex, and I could not believe the smooth, tight feeling. I think we both enjoyed the naughtiness of it. For the next three months we must have had anal sex just about every day… at my wife’s insistence. During this time she must have had at least ten orgasms that caused her to pass out.

Several months later, I went to the adult bookstore and picked up a dildo for her pussy and some better lube (we had been using KY Jelly). The first time we used them, she sat on top of me. My cock was in her ass, as she inserted the dildo into her cunt. It made her ass feel even tighter. She literally slammed her ass down on my cock as I squeezed her incredible tits. We both came in minutes. She passed out, falling backward. When she did, she squirt all over. My wife had never had a squirting orgasm before, and it was incredibly kinky.

In July of 2006, my wife asked if I would mind if we just skipped vaginal sex altogether and went straight to anal from now on. When I asked her if she meant that we would no longer have vaginal sex, she said, yes. My mind was blown. As we talked about it, we both realized we both thought the other still wanted to have vaginal sex. If either one of us had proposed it earlier, we would have been anal only years earlier.

My wife and I have been having anal sex for about 33 years now and haven’t been anal only since 2006. Our sex life is hotter than ever. We have anal sex about seven times a week. It’s our dirty little secret. We like to wonder who else we know might be having anal sex as well.

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Well this is an amazing story. I love the way you guys developed to anal only.

And that last remark. My sweety and me are also often wondering things like “would anyone suspect we only have anal sex ?” Or “would other people even look at us and think ‘she loves having her ass fucked’” :smile:

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Thanks for the account of your experience. Very interesting to read. Very serendipitous.

(sorry for my poor writing)

Interesting. I wonder if you used condom or started using any other measures, like douches. From what I read it surprises me that nobody is talking about a potencial risk of STD. Also, as far as I know, even if you have an STD, you can still get other diseases. I can only suppose that the heat of the moment makes us forget potencial risks (if I was as hot as you, I think that I would forget as well).

Does the lube make a significant difference?

From other experiences I read, men usually describe the sensation of anal sex as “tight”, “hot”, kind of smooth and such.

And I suppose things happen for a reason. Imagine if you never encountered that movie by pure chance: you would have lost some of the best moments of your relation.

GL m8.

I enjoy reading your story. I can tell it was a profound discovery, just as it was for us. I honestly believe there are people who may be missing the most erotic sex imaginable because they have really tried or don’t have the patience to attempt it correctly.

What a magical tape you stumbled across :slight_smile: Thank you for your story!

Lube is a must for anal sex, especially when you’re just starting out.

As for your STD question: It’s true that anal sex poses a higher risk of infection for certain STDs (the skin in the rectum is both more delicate and absorbs liquids more easily than a vagina does), but you have to consider this: STDs don’t just magically appear from anal. LuvMyWifesAss tells a story about him and his wife, who probably are in a monogamous relationship. If neither of them brought any STDs into the marriage or cheated and got infected, anal is, from the stand point of STD infection, as safe as any other sex.

So, having sex with strangers / new partners: Always wear a condom, sure. But as for long-term monogamous relationships? The STD question has probably been answered a long time ago with a simple test. Or two :smiley:

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I know lube is a most, because the rectum does not produce lube. But I meant if different lubes (no, saliva does not count) make a difference.

Also, I know STDs don’t appear out of nowhere unless you get in contact with infected fluids or such, but I meant about other diseases you can get by anal sex (because of contact with particles of fecal matter).

I don’t think it will come, but different condoms make a difference? If so, what kind of differences?

Have a nice day.

As @aNewFrivolity points out lube is helpful for those new to anal. My wife produces a jelly like substance in her rectum. Once I’ve fully penetrated her ass slowly, my cock picks up enough natural moisture from her rectum it’s go time without any lube. A little saliva helps me make initial penetration. Many members here enjoy anal with little to no lube but I strongly recommend lube when starting your anal journey.

I suppose it’s possible to get a urinary tract infection from bacteria in the rectum but I’ve yet to experience it personally after years of anal only, and some sessions where she’s “dirty” (not intentionally dirty). One should NEVER switch between her ass and her pussy as she has a higher risk for possible UTI’s. Even if I got a UTI from anal sex with my wife I would never stop anal. The benefits and pleasure far outweigh the risks.

STD’s are only possible if one has it and passes it to the other.

Therefor there is NEVER a risk for STD’s in a monogomous relationship. The only moment in my life that I was in risk of having caught an STD, was when my ex fucked a player for over a year while also having sex with me. Good for her I tested negative, or I would have been pretty agressive. :face_with_raised_eyebrow: