How many sexual partners did you had vefore finding the one?

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And I don’t mean anal partners. All of them.

I am 54 and my current girlfriend is only the 4th woman in my life I have sex with.

I am old fashioned and never looked for one night stands or never simply wanted to empty my balls. For me sex always needed connection first. Without connection my cock fails me.

So I wonder if there are more people (especially men) who are like me.

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Haven’t had any, but I do agree with you in the sense that for sex, it’s really important to be in connection with your partner.

I know there’re tons of sex workers in my area and I could just pay for it, but I have many reasons why not to do it and one of them is connection: I’d rather lose my virginity with someone I love instead of losing it out of desperation.

No connection is like eating a really delicious meal but with no appetite and not being hungry.

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I’m 19 and had 3 boyfriends before finding the most amazing bloke in the world. None of my exes could even come close to him, I’m a lucky gal

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I need a connection, too, though not necessarily a romantic one. I need to feel trust and like we’re on a similar wave length, speaking each other’s language.

Before meeting my girlfriend, I had sex with six people I think, but we’re both exploring outside our relationship as well. I would say she’s still the one, though, and I dare say it’s mutual.

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I know a handful of sex workers and respect their decision to work in this field.
I would never pay for sex, though, not because I think it’s wrong to do so, but because I love the connection and interplay of lust, desire and creativity between two (or more) people who are having sex.
Paying for sex act A1, B23 and Y4 would feel like masturbation with a person present, not like sex, I think.

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I’m polyamorous, so for me there isn’t really “the one”, but before meeting my girlfriend I’d slept with about 22 people. My girlfriend and I have a connection I’ve never felt with any other sexual partner before though, and we’ve been able to explore me being anal-only more than with any other partner! While we do have oral sex occasionally, we try to focus any stimulation I receive to be anal. I don’t enjoy vaginal penetration at all so it’s entirely off the table.
My lover and I have anal sex too, but usually I’m topping her (vaginally) and we don’t do anal that often, and our relationship is a lot more casual.

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My husband is my first. But thanks to him, until now, we played with about ten girls after I found him, and currently we often play with three. I can’t say the number wouldn’t increase, but I bet there wouldn’t to many new players.

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