Hey.
I’m wondering how important total vaginal and clitoral abandonment is to our community.
Is giving up the “bad hole” and clitoris something that is required in your sexual life and adds more satisfaction or do you have no problem with touching this place by you/your partner, but just prefer anal penetration overall?
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We ‘ve done clit denial and it did lead to a few pure anal orgasms.
But my girlfriend says clit denial made them simply harder to reach, but not stronger. So we restarted clit stimulation and she comes easier, faster and just as satisfactory.
What clit denial did do, was that mental aspect. The purity of seeing her fully enjoy having her ass fucked, without any touch of her clit, was mesmerising for me. So even now, we only stimulate her clit when she clearly wants to cum. There are still plenty of assfucks where she doesn’t and only goes for the pure assfuck, while concentrating on my orgasm alone. It makes me feel very wanted if she does that.
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We generally say that everone’s welcome who’s very much into anal.
The “anal only” is right there in the title of course, but how you enjoy your sex is up to you.
There’s also been some long-winded discussions about what counts as what that went nowhere, and I think we collectively agreed that we don’t need a rule for what’s a “real” anal orgasm for example.
PS: Don’t tell the others, but I occassionally enjoy vaginal sex with my lover 
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Hey whatever gives you pleasure, embrace it. I have recently restarted clitoral stimulation as a separate activity. I don’t do it when I’m enjoying anal sex. Currently my vagina is just decoration however that may change next year!!!
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Originally, my wife enjoyed anal orgasms without stimulating her clit. She tried a vibrator during anal and said it enhances the overall experience. Her orgasms are much more powerful, although she tosses the vibrator aside as she feels her anal orgasm approaching.
There are some in the group who avoid touching the clit and others who don’t. I play with, finger, and lick all of her lady parts and ass, but there is only one hole my cock penetrates. No firm rules here as it’s a place where all things anal are cherished and discussed.
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Oh… My clit still gets lots of love and my pussy will take anything but his cock, but often goes empty. Definitely into anal for the pleasure aspect, so I just do whatever I feel like doing with it. I’ll say this though, everything feels better if anal is involved. If it isn’t, it doesn’t feel like enough to get me anywhere.
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I would like to add to our friends, that, sometimes, the mental aspect of not wanting to cum, can make you cum even harder