What does multiple cocks in your anus do to it? I’d be afraid that I’d stretch too far and have toileting accidents! 
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We both really enjoy anal, but the pain that comes with it does cause me to think twice about it, even though I love the feelings and sensations. Once he’s in, and I’m relaxed, he can start thrusting, but it’s sometimes really hard to make myself relax, and I guess that’s part of it.
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One thing you could do is just rub yoir anus for quite some time with a finger a bunch of lube. Go slowly, focusing on the sensation. While doing it, try to just barely insert the finger, but all of it yet. After a while, try going in with the finger and go in and out, trying to stretch the anus. After that, try with two fingers, then 3, then 4… if you have on hand, then you could try to slide in a butt plug…
It’s a bit of a chore, but it will relax you enough. Just remember to breath slowly and focus on sensation and don’t rush it.
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I’ve met women who like the pain, they enjoy the discomfort and almost come to crave it in anticipation of what is going to follow.
Good luck on your journey. The more anal you have the easier it will become and the circle becomes complete….
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I’ve never had an accident following double anal. The stretching sensation is bliss. OK triple anal was uncomfortable but fun.
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It takes time. Half a dozen times is a good start. You’re still training your sphincter muscle. The important thing is you enjoy anal. A kid in the next room makes it a challenge to find the time to enjoy each other. Don’t worry because time passes quickly and this will become a brief phase of an awesome life.
If you haven’t tried already, rub your clit or use a vibrator on your clit during anal. It can help your sphincter muscle relax a bit more. All I can say is many women who love anal experienced some discomfort before they adjusted and developed a strong preference for anal. We’re here to help in any way we can.
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Great advice Colt. Happy holidays
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I experienced pain and discomfort for quite a while but my boyfriend was patient and supported me to find what worked for me. It seems to generally pass over time so my advice would be to stick with it. The results are worth it
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I have pain and discomfort if I don’t stretch out first. I really like glass plugs, and because they’re so smooth, they slide in easily with next to nothing for lube, but when lubed up thoroughly, they go in very easily. So I use a small plug to open me up, a medium plug slathered in a lot of lube to really open me up and help me relax (and lube me up) and depending on how relaxed or aroused I’m feeling, plug almost the size of his penis thoroughly lubed, slide that in and out a couple times, and then let him lubed up. Then it doesn’t hurt at all.
Or if I’m horny as hell and just need it now, I’m probably aroused and relaxed enough to just use my glass dildo covered in line for a minute then let him in.
Either way, I’m warming up first and I’m definitely stimulating my clit if needed to ease the entry.
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In the shower last night I put one finger and then two and I couldn’t believe how tight my anus was! Wow! I’ve never done that before so I was really surprised.
I’ve got a metal butt plug that I’ve worn once or twice and bought a bigger one yesterday.
I reckon I’ll put the smaller one in after my husband has given me a nice anal massage and I’m all relaxed. Then after a while try the bigger one which is closer to my husbands girth.
Now that you are aware of how tight you are, next time while fingering try to play with the tension of your muscle to know what you have to move to be relaxed.
Something else you can try is this: With a finger inside of you (use plenty of lube and plebty of time to slide it in), breathe slowly abd deeply. When breathing in, tighten your hole slightly, and relax on the out breath.
Keep doing this for a while, abd notice if your nether hole becomes more relaxed, abd if the act of relaxing it becomes easier!