How you can possibly “know” what another person experiences is beyond belief. You’ve accused people of “lying” about their preference of finishing in their partners mouth in addition to denying something my wife routinely experiences.
Just because you believe anal orgasm can ONLY occur without clit stimulation doesn’t make it so. She’s had anal orgasms WITHOUT clit stimulation and they are IDENTICAL to when she stimulates her clit. Same whole body feeling that is uniquely and completely different than a clitoral orgasm which she has experienced thousands of times.
I would kindly ask you to refrain from telling us what we are personally experiencing. It’s insulting and several members here have expressed concern with your comments. I didn’t join this group to be criticized and corrected. You wanted this group to thrive but you’re doing your best to drive people away.