Ass to mouth is a norm for me. I know quite a few people who use ass to mouth as a fairly regular activity of their sex life. Some, who are not AO but still enjoy it while others use it for special occasions only (birthdays, anniversaries or the man in their life doing the washing up!) My confidence discussing sex with other people is a relatively new thing for me but if the conversation is received well, I gain an interesting insight into my friends! A conversation yesterday with a friend showed a friend who would never do ATM although she was interested in my sex life. I thought I might be able to sow some seeds of temptation for her and her husband but I was unsuccessful! My impression was that ATM is common among our community but it seems a but lost on some people
I am 54. The first time I had anal, with my then wife, I was 27. Once I brought up the subject of ass to mouth. She prompted me never even to speak of it again, and said she would never even consider it.
At age 46 I had anal with my next lover. Again I tried talking about ass to mouth. She shut me up right away. It was non discussable.
At age 51, started having anal with my current girlfriend. One day, I texted her, that I needed to talk about something which was important to me, but made me nervous to even bring it up. When I dropped the bomb that I was fantasizing about ass to mouth, she asked questions. How do we do it, what do we do ? And she said āooh I want to try that if we do it like thatā (rincing her rectum with an anal douche first)
She was glad that all I wanted was ass to mouth, cause she was afraid I fantasized about threesomes 
No we are ass to mouth only. Sucking my cock and assfucking her are one to us. In each direction. There will rarely be a blowjob without some assfucking, and there will very rarely be an assfuck with her sucking me in between or licking me clean after I cum.
Ass to mouth, to me, is the purest form of sex. It is the purest show of her love for me. I really believe that, so be able to perform ass to mouth, she must love me in the deepest possible way. And I love her back, equally as deep. Because she is my ass to mouth queen.
I may be the only man in the world who can take or leave oral sex. It just doesnāt do it for me because I always feel her teeth. Ironically, she treated me to a little ATM this afternoon. It is very erotic and submissive, but I quickly return to her ass to finish. Both of us appreciate the eroticism involved, but Iām much more focused on cumming deep in her ass. I know Iām the exception to the rule in this group.
Allthough I love having my cock sucked. I didnāt even wanted my previous wife to suck me because she had absolutely no idea that suckibg a circumsized cock needs a different approach. So she did things that didnāt even felth that good to me.
At that time I was okay with vaginal and anal alone. But still I did miss a good blowjob, every now and then. So that my finacee is a true blowjobqueen, is a huge gift.
Iām not sure you are the exception to the rule. Finishing in their ass seems to be very popular. My friend Karen likes cum in her ass although also enjoys it in her mouth also. I recall when I first explored anal sex, my first boyfriend used to cum in my ass but following some research I preferred taking it in my mouth. We all have different desires and thatās what makes things fun.
Mmm I love a circumcised cock. It just seems firmer and licking around the top of a circumcised cock just feels nicer. I love pleasuring using oral sex as long as I get rewarded with a cock (or 2) in my ass and cum in my mouth! I get positive feedback from the use of my tongue.
Iāve only had the pleasure of ATM once. I definitely enjoy cumming inside an ass more than a mouth, though watching every last drop of cum being sucked out of my cock is appreciated.
As a cavalier, rather than a Roundhead I have never had any complaints about the extra ruff during anal or vaginal intercourse.
Its each to their own. When Iām just with my boyfriend I much prefer gentle, sensuous anal. A lot of the time that is my favourite
Pleasure is always context specific. And it should be oneās primary objective in life as long as it is not to the detriment of others.
Your hedonism (Abbi) pleases me.
It pleases our little group. We know each other and ensure that everyone has fun. Thatās how we work
A wonderful arrangement for you all. Serendipity comes good again.
I am jealous, so will enjoy your adventures vicariously.
Concerning shooting my load in her ass or in her mouth, Iām kind of weird.
When she goes ass to mouth, it mostly feels so good I first feel this urge to finish in her mouth. Followed by - almost - an anciety to switch to her asshole again to cum in her sweet, warm bowel.
If I cum in her mouth, it feels so good that I tell her and myself I want to feel this more often. Yet the next time Iām at the same point, exactly the same urge to switch to her asshole comes over me.
One of the reasons I love ATM is because it is still often seen as taboo. I recall my boyfriendās surprise when we were having anal for the first time. I could hear he was about to cum so I spun around and sucked him until he came in my mouth. He had never experienced ATM before and his reaction made me think āthis is a winnerā! Iām in no way submissive. I do ATM because I love it!
I think we are the exception for sure!
Thereās a strong taboo associated with anything dealing with our rectum, still, even among people into anal pleasure.
I had a discussion about rectal health with such a person once, and they already had to have two surgeries. Still, even thinking about changing some habits (like the way one uses the toilet) was out of the question for them.
Now apply such a mindset to someone who doesnāt enjoy anal ā¦
āyou put what in your mouth after it has been where???ā
Tiff is more open than I am about discussing anal sex and ATM. I think she gets a kick out of making people cringe! Some of her friends know about our little anal group and I remember overhearing her talking about getting double anal then sucking the cocks, one of which had some shit on it! The reaction of others was disgust but to be fair she brought the conversation around to the pleasure she gets and the fun she has. In the end one of the girls said she will be having a chat with her boyfriend who Iām sure will be delighted!
Not the norm for me, definitely. Will do it when asked to, and have been doing it sometimes in the heat of the moment, but definitely not the norm. I just donāt like the smell (yes, better preparation might solve that problem, I guess)
When I was 17 I first did ATM with a boyfriend who was controlling and lets put it this way. I was not always prepared. It was a learning curve and we did not last long after he started that sort of crap. Nowadays I am always ready and ATM from my ass has no surprises. Wish I could say the same about my buddy Karen!!
When I did āthe talkā with my girlfriend to ask her about ATM, I was the one who told her to rince her rectum before attempting ATM.
Buying the anal douche might have been the best decission we ever made. Cleaning herself gave her confidence that there would not be poop on my cock. And the fact that there was no chance for poop on my cock made her do ATM much more often then I hoped for.
I do consider an anal douche (not an enema, thatās too severe) as something good. The prep doesnāt ruin the experience at all. If I hear her squeeze the water in her bowel, itās one of the most sexy sounds I know and it makes me eager to assfuck her.
I see what you did there 
Iām with the most amazing man now who shares my love of anal but keeps me safe x