Tiff and I had a conversation during the week. We use ass to mouth as a regular part of our sexual fun but we struggled to remember how we felt when we first did it. I’m aware that not everyone on this forum does ass to mouth but for those who do or did, what were your thoughts, concerns, feelings or fears?
My first ATM was not positive, granted I was only 17 and quite inexperienced. It hurt and was ‘dirty’ when he told me to take it in my mouth. My consent while given, was under some duress however I played along and pretended to enjoy it! It was the one and only time with him, in fact I kicked him into touch a few days after that
My girlfriend is not on the forum. But as long as I remember, her first ass to mouth was because I asked her to do it and after preperation.
She loved it from the first time because I was so happy that she wanted to do it for me.
I genuinly believe she would not have done it for any other man.
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Cate here…I was dead against atm the first time my husband suggested it. 
He said other girls do it and love it, and I said I’m not other girls!!!
He gave me videos to watch of girls doing atm and loving it. He also explained that the anal canal is empty until someone needs to 
and if the girl (or guy) keeps themself clean, there’s nothing to worry about.
We were making love one night and we did anal which I really love, and in the heat of the moment I got down on my knees and sucked and licked him off which he found extremely hot 
To my surprise and pleasure, I couldn’t smell or taste anything. It was just clean. I loved that he got off on me sucking him off after he’d been in my ass!
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Meanwhile it happens that my girlfriend does ass to mouth without having done an anal douche prior. I don’t know when she does or doesn’t use her douche.
So if she’s in for ass to mouth I assume she cleaned herself. But like some day she herself asked to suck it while I was assfucking her. Of course I pulled out and presented it to her mouth. She sucked till I blew my load in her mouth. Then she said “I even did this unprepared because really I wanted to do ass to mouth”.
Those are the moments that make me feel super loved. 
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My first time I just totally wanted it, I knew I was completely empty and clean that gave me the confidence to just go for it.
I absolutely loved it, I’d tasted my vagina on my husbands cock previously but I genuinely prefer the flavour of my ass.
I’ve since done it dirty a few times, nowhere near as big a deal as you’d imagine, my husbands cock from other assholes and other cocks from my asshole.
It’s one of my favourite sexual activities.
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Preparation before ATM is normally preferred however spontaneity often makes anal sex more fun. Sometimes a little bit of poo can make it extra hot according to my boyfriend and friends, I’m not so sure however I will not ruin the moment by stopping and telling them to clean it first!
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Once I saw poop and stopped her. Afterwards she asked me not to do that the next time and just let her suck it because she’s too horny to notice anyway.
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It doesn’t happen that often so i don’t stress over it
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Cate here… I don’t use an anal douche, but I’ve always had a thing for keeping my ass super clean, even before anal sex ever became a thing for us. I thing I would be horrified if I found on my husbands cock.
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Mrs Colt was the same way at first. She cleans with an enema and it took a while for her to perfect her cleaning routine.
She’s comfortable now engaging in impromptu anal without using an enema but she always asks me if my cock is clean after I cum in her ass.
The bottom line for those of us in the group is that we love anal sex. When you give or receive anal sex it isn’t a matter of if you’ll encounter a little shit, it’s when you will.
I feel comfortable speaking for the men in this group that we expect it and that it will not deter us from engaging in the most erotic form of sex.
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From a girl’s point of view, shit happens! Yes anal will almost always leave remnants of poo on most items that pass the internal anal sphincter. Its not really a problem for most people even if ATM is part of the fun!
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