“vagina virgins” here means people who has no vagina sex experience, but tried anal (to be distinguished with real virgins)
I myself is. everyday I’d want to try vagina sex, I’m so curious about it. but meanwhile I’ll keep it this way because the desire gives me a lot of fun, and fighting it makes my feel powerful.
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I’ve been experimenting with my fingers lately (experimentation only, not for the pleasure), and my penis has never touched a vagina before does that count?
I guess it would be categorized as “normal virgin” having no sex experience with others.
Man 26 here!
I actually wished I would be. When I was younger, the strive to losing ones virginity and “being normal” led me to have vaginal sex. If I knew back then that I could leave it, and save myself to only have anal / oral etc. with my partners, I’d totally do that and stay that way.
Women who are vaginal virgins is an enormous turn on to me, it’s like… a fantasy, unreal!
most people would only try anal after they had vagina sex. people in some religions which against young sex may try anal first as a replacement.
I guess I can offer some perspective from a guy’s point of view, if you’re interested?
My first experience with penetrative sex was anal, so I guess I was a vaginal virgin for quite a bit of time 
I’ve also had the experience of giving anal to a total virgin.
Not sure if this is what this thread is about, though. So if those stories intrigue you, do say so!
I’m interested of course. so why did you and the virgin parter chose anal in the first time?
my story is very simple. at first I said I want to save my vagina for some special person, but later when I decide my husband is that special one, we already been anal only for years, so we just chose to keep it that way.
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Well, as for the virgin partner: The first time we fooled around, I rubbed her clit and she had her first orgasm.
She was in her mid 20’s at that time (long story).
Right after that, I thought I’d show her more, gave her some instructions and could easily finger her butt while rubbing her clit until she came again. She enjoyed anal stimulation straight away.
Since I had always had the fantasy of fucking a virgin up the butt, I suggested it to her. She agreed, and so we did it as her first time.
Sadly, it didn’t live up to the fantasy, but it was cool she wanted to try it. She was special in many ways.
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I’m curious, why was your vagina more special to you than your butt? Is anal considered not loosing your virginity in your culture?
As for my first time: I met a girl who wanted to submit to me, bdsm-wise. When it came to sex, it was almost TPE. (Not a good way to start out, the whole thing wasn’t indicative of good mental health for both of us.)
As I wasn’t interested in fucking her pussy, I simply didn’t. After some months, I got curious, but compared to her ass, I barely felt anything, and it hurt her, so I never tried that with her again.
What is TPE ? People keep using abrevations which mean little to nothing to me. 
Total power exchange. its recognised in a bdsm lifestyle.
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it’s like so because of hymen, I want some one special to break it. at the time, my husband was only my master, not lover. our relationship was like:
- I was a virgin by all means at first, of course.
- we started sexless bdsm thing, naked, but no penetration, no cock.
- started to do oral, and got toys/fingers in my anal, not in vagina because of hymen.
- let him fuck my anal.
- we fall in love, it’s getting romantic, and he proposed for marriage.
- we decide to be anal only, so I can be the only girl that he fucked in anal but not in vagina. and he stopped fucking others’ anal too.
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Ah, sorry, I should explain bdsm-terminology.
Basically, she had no input and wanted no input concerning what happened sexually between us.
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